Pleasure Activist, LLC — Somatic Embodiment & Sexual Empowerment Coaching

Pleasure Activist
Trauma-informed · Confidential
Embrace Your Body & Soul

EmbodimentSexologyShamanic Practices

Varina Smallwood

My name is Varina and I am the Founder of Pleasure Activist, LLC. I've been a Registered Nurse & Nurse Educator for decades, as well as a published author. In my personal life, I have overcome multiple complex traumas over time. Since 2024, I've had multiple life changing experiences. These included transformational and physical healing in Bali, Indonesia... learning Somatics & Embodiment through Coaching... and work with a Shamanic Practitioner and a Shamanic Apprenticeship. I'm in the process of completing certifications for Sexology and an International Integrated Sex Coaching & Education program. Pleasure in all areas of life is an important and often overlooked Nervous System Resource. Everyone is deserving of Happiness - We are not our past or our trauma. All people are capable and deserving to feel pleasure in various ways and aspects of their lives. Reach out if you'd like to chat...

Note: No nursing services are being provided at this time.

The Path That Shaped This Business

Varina's Journey

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Healing Journey

Bali

In 2024, Varina traveled to Bali, Indonesia for a transformational experience that sparked profound healing in all aspects of her life - mental, emotional, physical and spiritual. Immersed in the island's rich spiritual culture and vortexes, she underwent deep somatic release work and energetic healing — including a Kundalini healing with her Holy Man, Gede. These experiences reshaped Varina's relationship with herself and opened the door to expand her life's calling to help others. After returning home, life led to work with a Shaman and enrollment in a coaching certification class.

Download: Wholeness in Bali
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Embodiment

Somatic Coaching

Through intensive training in Somatics & Embodiment Coaching, Varina learned to listen to the body as a source of wisdom. This scientifically based work — rooted in nervous system regulation, somatic inquiry, and trauma-informed practice — forms the foundation of every session and all teaching she offers.

She is completing certifications in Sexology and an International Integrated Sex Coaching & Education program. Integrative Sex Coach & Educator is an internally trademarked unique modality; learn more at integrativeintimacycoaching.com

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Spirituality

Shamanism

Working with a Shamanic Practitioner has benefitted Varina in many areas of life, including ancestral healing. Learn more at thunderhorsehealing.com

A comprehensive Shamanic Apprenticeship deepened Varina's understanding of energy, ritual, and the sacred dimensions of life and healing. Drawing on various indigenous traditions, she weaves shamanic principles into her holistic approach — honoring the whole person: body, mind, and spirit.

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Choose Your Path... Introductory Pricing!

Pleasure Activist blends various techniques, including holding space for others to learn and heal, as well as teaching and exploring somatics. Optional additions include sexual education & coaching, as well as shamanic practices. Services are offered in person or online. Note: Shamanic Services & Workshops are open to anyone. Coaching is offered for women & vulva owners only.

One-Off Session

1 hr 30 mins
$150

A one-off coaching session for women and vulva owners to address specific somatic enquiries and/or distinct sexual topics.

Coaching is somatically based and trauma informed. A questionnaire will be sent when a session is booked to identify priorities to be addressed. A summary will be sent afterwards, so clients are able to be fully present during the session.

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Personalized Coaching Package

Most Popular
1 hr 30 mins

Transformative packages curated for women and vulva owners. Coaching sessions approximately every two weeks with support between sessions.

Popular Packages

6 sessionsover 12 weeks
$900
12 sessionsover 6 months
$1,800
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Workshop Request

Customized Based on Needs

Reach out if you would like a workshop presented to your group online or in person! Dates, times, and prices will vary based on your needs.

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Voices of Empowered People!

Better than Imagined

Coaching with Varina was one of the best decisions I've ever made! This experience has been nothing short of amazing; this work is truly destined for her. The new profound love, safety and connection I now feel within myself and my body is something I never imagined possible. I've learned to slow down, trust myself more deeply and reconnect with parts of myself I had lost touch with for so long.

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JT

May 24, 2026

Safe Space

I now move through life feeling more grounded, confident, feminine, emotionally balanced, and aligned. The healing I experienced went far beyond what I expected, and I'm incredibly grateful for the care, support, and safe space that was held for me throughout the entire process. For anyone considering this experience, I encourage you say yes. You won't regret it!

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Jaimie

May 24, 2026

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